Lavender
Welcome To Lavender
Lavender Is Here To Help You Explore The World Of ANR.
See Our Educational Resources.
Browse Free Personals or Contact Lavender Members.
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What Is ANR?
ANR Is the acronym for Adult Nursing Relationships.
Also often referred to as ABF, Adult Breast Feeding, it's the same thing. Some people would say it is a lifestyle, others believe ANR/ABF is a fetish or kink. There is no right or wrong way to view it, whatever is most comfortable for you is ok.
Lavender is here to bring together like minded people with ANR as a common interest. Most people who use this site or the Lavender Discord are single and looking for partners. Some have found partners, some enjoying staying connected in the online community even when they are not looking to date.
What makes Lavender different from other ANR sites?
This site has butterflies that flap and flutter, and a humming bird too. Other sites don't have that. Lavender is run by a woman who has been part of the ANR communities for over 8 years now, so the site and groups are extra considerate to women and their specific needs and challenges when dating in the ANR world. This site does not allow any/all users to join. We have a strict 21 and over policy and anyone who is not nice to others is removed. Another huge difference is there is absolutely NO Soliciting allowed on anything associated with Lavender. No "milk maids", no milk for sale, nothing sketchy.
The majority of Lavender members view ANR as a special, romantic bond.
What happens in an Adult Nursing Relationship is up to the individuals involved. Lactation is an option! Lactation can happen for many women, even if they have not had children or ever been pregnant. It does require enormous amounts of time, effort, dedication plus so much more. Lactation is a personal choice that is best left up to the ladies to decide if it is right for them. Without lactation, you can still have an ANR relationship. That is often referred to as "dry", where lactation is called "wet" for obvious reasons! Our Educational Section will be regularly updated with more information and tips for supportive partners, etc. Thank you for being part of the LavenderANR community, and as always, if you have any questions or concerns, we have so many people happy to help. Contact Candy, the site admin or ask a question in the Discord and someone will respond quickly.
About Lavender
What Can You Do On This Site?
The site has many more users than you can see.
When you join the site you select to share your info or no, do not share it. Many people choose just to browse or to be the person to reach out if someone on the site catches their eye.
There are different ways to use this site, all with the goal of connecting with others seeking ANR relationships.
Two different types of Free Personal Ads are offered.
When you sign up, if you choose to share your information it will go on the free personal ads. You may also submit a more detailed Personal Ad that will go in the scroll trough header on the Personals Page.
You can submit a request to create a Full Profile. These are only viewable by approved site members, you may choose this option for the most privacy.
