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Lavender
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What Happens If I Sign Up For Lavender, As A New Member?
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The Information You Subit Will Be Read By The Admin Who Will Either Approve or Deny Your Request. If Approved, You Will Be Able To See All of The Site Pages In The Main Menu, However Some Pages, Including Member Profiles Will Still Show They Are Locked and For Members Only. Those Are For Subscribers To Lavender.
Why? It's 2 Levels of Security. 1, By Signing Up The Site Admin Has Your Contact Info And Registers You As A Site Member. To See Anything On This Website, That Is Necessary, Due To The Private Nature Of What This Site Is About. This Also Allows The Admin to Block Members Who Are Inappropriate or Not A Good Fit For The Site. The 2nd Level, Becoming A Subscriber Allows Full Access To All Pages Including Seeing Members Profiles and Being Able To Have Your Own Custom Profile Created and Contact Lavender Members.
To Sum It All Up, If You Want to Check Out The Site, Sign Up.
If You Want to Use The Site, You Must Purchase A Subscription.
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What If I Already Have A Custom Profile On Lavender and I Have Used This Site Before?
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You Need To Complete The New Member Sign Up To Have Your Own Account Login And Password To Access The Site From Now On
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What If I Just Want To Browse The Site Before Signing Up?
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In Order To Respect and Maintain The Privacy of All Of Our Members, Sign Up Is Required To Access Most Areas Of This Site.
If You Are Curious To Know More About Lavender Members Before Joining The Site,
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Do I Have To Join In Order To Post A Personal Ad?
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Nope! Also You Do Not Have To Be A Member To View Them.
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How Long Has LavenderANR Been Around? How Much Does It Cost To Join?
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The LavenderANR Site was started in early 2024 and has grown organically since. Plans And Pricing
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What Makes Lavender Different From Other Sites?
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Many Things Make Lavender Unique! It's Run By A Woman Who Has Been In The ANR Communities Online For 8+ Years Now And Understands The Struggles Many People Face In Trying To Find A Partner. Nonsense Is Not Allowed Here. Low Effort Profiles Are Not Accepted, Anything That Is Not Decent Isn't Welcome Here. No Soliciting or Any Of That Will Ever Be Tolerated. Kind, Respectful Adults Looking For Partners Only.
Additionally, Everything On This Site Is Custom Built Including Profiles.
See Candy's Profile or Example Man To Get An Idea Of Just How Much You Can Have Your Profile Customized. No More Boring Basic Outdated Sites.
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What Pages or Site Features Are Available For Members Only?
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The Pages That You Can See As A Site Member Without A Subscription Include: The Home Page, Which Is For Announcements, News, A Site Directory, All Kinds Of Things.
The Men's Profiles and The Ladies Profiles Can Only Be Seen By Lavender Subscribed Members. The Virtual Coffee Shop, aka Chat Forum Is Another Feature For Subscribed Members- Update-Coffee Shop and Several Pages Have Been Removed or Hidden Until They Can Be More Useful.
More Coming Soon!
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How Many Lavender Members Are Near Me?
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Lavender is New! The Site Is Approximately a Year Old as of January 2025. We Are Growing Fast. Don't Be Discouraged If There Are No Members Near You Just Yet, There Probably Will Be Soon! Here Is A Link To Our Member Map!
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